Benjamin Michael Flear

1970 - 2007
LocationBournemouth
Age37 years
Date of Birth12/03/1970
Date of Death10/2007
Visitors7,769 since 15/10/2008
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Ben loved nature and going to the beach for long walks, he loved all his nieces and nephews, and enjoyed playing with them all when they were all babies.he had three sisters,karen,beci and shell and loved joining in with their dancing.as ben got older he used to go off to london to trafalgar square and the wax work museum.even though his health was not good he surprised us all by going off to australia for christmas to visit relatives.we have so many funny and happy memories of ben which will last in our hearts for ever.
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*********************** I LOVE YOU SON ***********************************
I hold you & your happiness within my heart each and every day,
i am so proud of you and so thankful to the years that have given me so much to be thankful for.
if i were given a chance to be anything i wanted to become,
theres nothing i would rather be...
************************ than your mum ***************************************
And there is no one i would rather have
************************ as my Son *******************************************

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If I Could Have a Lifetime Wish



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If I could have a lifetime wish,
A dream that would come true,
I'd pray to God with all my heart for
Yesterday and You.



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A thousand words can't bring you back;
I know because I've tried.
And neither can a million tears;
I know because I've cried.



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You left behind my broke heart
and happy memories too.
I never wanted memories,
I only wanted you.



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~Author Unknown~

Joyce Tidy

Yesterday evening



Tomorrow

When tomorrow starts without me
And I'm not there to see
If the sun should rise and find your eyes All filled with tears for me
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today

While thinking of the many things
We didn't get to say
I know how much you love me
As much as I love you
And each time that you think of me
I know you'll miss me too

But when tomorrow starts without me
Please try to understand
That an angel came and called my name
And took me by the hand
And said my place was ready
In heaven far above
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love

But when I walked through heaven's gates I felt so much at home
When God looked down and smiled at me
From His great golden throne
He said "This is eternity
And all I've promised you"

I promise no tomorrow
For today will always last
And since each day's the same way
There's no longing for the past

So when tomorrow starts without me
Don't think we're far apart
For every time you think of me
I'm right here in your heart

Author Unknown



LOVE ALWAYS, VIKKI
x♥X♥x

Vikki Baker

Yesterday afternoon

If I Could Have a Lifetime Wish



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If I could have a lifetime wish,
A dream that would come true,
I'd pray to God with all my heart for
Yesterday and You.



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A thousand words can't bring you back;
I know because I've tried.
And neither can a million tears;
I know because I've cried.



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You left behind my broke heart
and happy memories too.
I never wanted memories,
I only wanted you.



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~Author Unknown~

Joyce Tidy

Yesterday morning

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Marie-Angela Rowe (Close Friend)

Yesterday morning


You think I've gone far away and life has lost its will,
But look around, I am right here, living with you still,
I watch your tears, I feel your pain, I see the things you do,
I weep as well, each time you cry, my soul it lives with you.
It gives me such joy to hear you laugh, and do the things you do,
And when you smile over bygone days, I smile right there with you,
For we are still one, just you and me, one mind, one soul, one being,
Walking forward into life, though you are only seen,
And in the stillness of the night, when the pain really starts,
Stretch out a little with your mind, and draw me to your heart,
I am always close by your side, you have nothing at all to fear
And my love will always surround you until you join me here.....

Karls Mama (Friend)

Thursday morning

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Way over yonder
That's where I'm bound
I know when I get there
The first thing I'll see
Is the sun shining golden
Shining right down on me
Then trouble's gonna lose me
Worry leave me behind
And I'll stand up proudly
In true peace of mind


Carole King

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Karls Mama (Friend)

Wednesday morning

The Evergreen's Rose


Outside the house beside the driveway is an evergreen,
And two or three times every year a miracle is seen.
A single red rose starts to bud and blossom to full bloom,
In the center of the evergreen facing my room.

Surrounded by the greenery it glows a brilliant red,
A single red rose blooming where no other makes it's bed.
Each time it happens and I see it I just stop and stare,
And wonder with this evergreen how did the rose get there.

I always stand amazed when I am pondering this view,
It always brings back memories of someone that I once knew.
The evergreen reminds me of the people I have known,
But one stands out just like this rose that blooms there all alone.

The evergreen is beautiful like people I have met,
The rose reminds me of someone I never will forget.
The evergreen surrounds the rose with all it's greenery,
But the beauty of the precious rose is all that you can see.

It touches all your senses when the rose is blooming there,
It makes you stop and notice all the plant life everywhere.
Floral you would never see or pay attention to,
Unless the beauty of the rose had it's effect on you.

Sometimes things in life will bring the focus into view,
And make you notice everything as if it were brand new.
It makes you stop and be aware of all the little things,
You notice flowers as they bloom and watch a bird that sings.

He was such a person that this rose reminds me of,
Filled to overflowing with his gentleness and love.
Always with an attitude of being positive,
Never wanting for himself he only knew to give.

He never let the world around him change his attitude,
Like the single red rose blooming in it's solitude.
He knew his mind and heart and nothing could stand in his way,
Just like the single brilliant rose that's blooming here today.

Many times his actions would bring questions from a peer,
Just the way you wonder why the rose is growing here.
But in the end you always knew he'd blossom on the scene,
The same way that this single rose did with the evergreen.

Some people slip into your life so quietly they came,
And just the fact they touched your life, it never is the same.
He touched so many people's lives the way that he touched mine,
He was that rose so beautiful and I part of the pine.

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Wendy Bright Wife Of Carl (Friend)

5 days ago

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Tributes For Week Commencing 23rd January 2012

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Monday

★⋰⋱☆ When links of life are broken
★⋰⋱☆ And loved ones have to part
★⋰⋱☆ It leaves a wound that never heals
★⋰⋱☆ An ever broken heart


Tuesday

★⋰⋱☆ The Sun Doesn't Seem As Bright
★⋰⋱☆ The Sky Doesn't Seem As Blue
★⋰⋱☆ Nothing Is The Same Anymore
★⋰⋱☆ Not Since The Day We Lost You

Wednesday

★⋰⋱☆ A loving light is never dimmed
★⋰⋱☆ But shines on bright and clear
★⋰⋱☆ Within the hearts of those who care
★⋰⋱☆ And keep each memory dear

Thursday

★⋰⋱☆ Tiny stars, shining bright,
★⋰⋱☆ It’s time for me to say good night.
★⋰⋱☆ So close your eyes, and snuggle up tight,
★⋰⋱☆ I'm wishing you sweet dreams tonight

Friday

Garden of Eden

Over some exotic rainbow
Through forest wild and free
Live my darling Angel
Beside some coconut tree.

The beaches are sands of gold
With palm trees lined around
There my darling Angel
Dwells safe and sound.

The sun always shines
It survives just by love
In this garden of Eden
My true love dwells above.

Copyright� Sharon Wheeler.

Saturday

*ღ* Comfort *ღ*

The Holy Spirit comforts,
As He whispers in your ear;
A loving word of perfect peace,
Designed for you to hear.

A song of tender mercy,
He brings to soothe your sorrows;
Sweet memories of yesterday,
And hope for your tomorrows.

His tender arms enfold you,
He holds you as you pray;
Then reaches out His loving hand,
And wipes your tears away.

The Spirit of the Living God,
A light in the midst of the dark;
A comforting flame to guard you,
As he touches and heals your heart.

Ⓒ 1996 Allison Chambers Coxsey

Sunday

TWO HEARTS

Two hearts we were as one on earth,
Two hearts that were entwined,
My love for him was very strong,
He lives inside my mind.

His twinkling eyes got weary,
His beating heart took rest.
His lovely life just slipped away,
That life so full of zest!

I know he's gone to Heaven,
From earth he slipped away,
But faith in you my dearest Lord
Keeps me strong every day.

Two hearts once beat together,
Now one beats all alone.
I know one day we'll meet Dear Lord,
The day you call me home.

Ⓒ 2002 Dawn Glenton

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Marie-Angela Rowe (Close Friend)

1 week ago

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♥......... I'm sending a pillow of happy thoughts to create wonderful dreams, a blanket of care to comfort you all night and a prayer to protect you until morning light. .........love Jude. x x........♥

Jude Swaddle (GTS Friend)

1 week ago

Goodnight Special Angel
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♥☆ ♥☆ In our hearts ♥☆ ♥☆
♥☆ ♥☆ You're always here ♥☆ ♥☆
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♥☆ ♥☆ You're always near ♥☆ ♥☆

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♥☆ ♥☆ For you are ♥☆ ♥☆
♥☆ ♥☆ Always in our hearts ♥☆ ♥☆

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Marie-Angela Rowe (Close Friend)

1 week ago
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